Hindrance in Marriage

 We want a boy with good money, which people should we marry, and what is the main reason for the hindrance in marriage?

Mrs. Zubair used to arrange relationships. The most difficult thing happened to her when she was asked to find a relationship of our own caste or equal to us. Recently a boy and girl came to him and requested him to celebrate their parents as their parents did not want to have a relationship outside their caste. Both were students of the medical college. They wanted to start their careers together, obviously, both understood each other, they had spent five years together and had been in each other's arms through many difficult phases. Despite Mrs. Zubair's tireless efforts, the girl's parents did not agree, but according to her, they have fixed their daughter's relationship in the family and the boy is a good businessman who will keep her daughter happy. She thought that if children want to marry with the consent of their parents, then they are being rewarded for this obedience.

 After all, how long will these customs and traditions become the cause of hindrance in marriages? Our religion also allows both to see and understand each other. How many girls are left sitting on this basis because their parents and heads of the family prefer to have relationships on their own and it takes time?

Everyone has their own demand, usually, people want a guy who earns well so that he can provide all the comforts to his daughter. Is money all you need to live a good life even if that person doesn't have two hours to spend with your daughter? She craved her husband's attention all her life. In such a case, she is living like a bird locked in a gold cage devoid of emotions.

 

 Some people demand to have a very small family so that there is less confusion. The girl should avoid domestic politics. But it has been seen that family members support each other, the husband is busy for some reason, so the wife spends quality time with his family - especially at festivals and events where the members of a large family form a group. are like In difficult times, this is what families come too.

 

Actually, all these features are full of fears, they can be proven right or wrong. But do we see the kind of person with whom we are relating, is he aware of the manners of living, and is the fair or not? We find out about his job and income but we don't try to check his personality through some meetings. Any human being shows the colors of his training in some form or the other in a few meetings. Therefore, the most basic thing to getting married should be training. This is what family is. Rupees come from luck and hard work.

He who is well-educated will not do injustice in the least—he will fear that he is accountable to God in his affairs, and as a good man he will try to accommodate his fellow man in all circumstances. will So it is better that we pay attention to these lingering qualities and change our thinking, throw out the seeds of arrogance planted in us and make things easier for ourselves and our children. By the combination of different people, new colors are added to the family, some adopt our good things, others adopt the good traditions of others, and diversity is created in the family. After all, all people are the children of Adam and Eve!